How a short term visit to Uganda in 2009 turned into long term relationships
In the summer of 2009, with less than 3 weeks notice, I
found myself in Uganda. I traveled with
a team of friends from London to Luwero, Uganda to help run a University
student training course. I had
experience doing student mentorship on university campuses, and so was invited
to join the team when one of their team members was unable to go at the last
minute.
It was my first time to Africa, and I was more excited than
words.
I had been studying sub Saharan Africa
for 2 years at school and had just finished my degree in International
Relations with an emphasis in Africa studies.
I had been interested in working in Africa for much longer than my time
of studies.
This was the opportunity of
a life time.
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| Team Photo; July 2009 |
We were in Uganda for 10 days total, the training was 5 days
long.
It was held at Emmaus Centre in
Luwero, a Christian retreat center about an hour north of Kampala.
We were joined on our team by a number of
Ugandans, and worked harmoniously together to empower the young university
students to better be able to run various campus groups.
Little did I know that the people I met and relationships I
was forming would later turn into 3 years in Uganda, partnering with Emmaus
Center, and 2 years working with Cornerstone Development! I think that these stories are worth telling…
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| Emmaus 2009, Alfred singing a song that encourages him. |
Alfred: One of the people who joined our team at
Emmaus that week was a man named Alfred Edakasi. Dynamic, charming, well spoken, and funny,
Alfred shared with the participants aspects of The 7 Habits of Highly Effective
People. I had never heard them presented
the way he did. When we had a chance to
talk over lunch one day, he outlined the work of Cornerstone Development for
me. I was fascinated, and wanted to
learn more.
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| Alfred, sitting next to me at my farewell lunch this past Friday |
Fast forward 4 years, Alfred has been my “boss” (oversight
might be a better word) for 2 years! I am
his daughter’s God mother and incredibly close with his whole amazing
family. Alfred has been a constant
encouragement and support. While I was
living in Mbarara, he used to call and text me to make sure I was ok, and
getting the medical care I needed when I was sick. Insightful, supportive and wise, Alfred has
suggested many of the things we have implemented in Cornerstone Veritas, which
have had great success, including our internship program!
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| Me and Martha at her baptism |
Who knew that a lunch and a few days at Emmaus in 2009 would
turn into a lifelong friendship!
Frank: In late July, 2011, Cornerstone Veritas
ran the 10 Principles of Leadership in Kampala.
A close friend of mine, Fr. Henry, told me he wanted his brother to
attend. When his brother didn’t come the
first day, I informed Henry that he hadn’t come. Apparently, Henry put some heat under his
brother, and Frank came the next day. He
participated actively in the course, and found the material to be life
changing. At the end of the course, we
invited him to join our team back at my apartment for dinner. He fit so well with us!
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| A very young Frank, 2009 Emmaus Center |
It was at that point that Frank told me that he had met me
before that week. I was deeply
confused. When? I asked. He told me that in his break after high school
he had attended the university student’s course at Emmaus, in 2009! I was so surprised and excited. He said it had been a very positive
experience.
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| Frank's funny CV staff photo |
Several weeks later, we interviewed Frank for the part time
Male staff position with Cornerstone Veritas, and hired him! Just this past weekend, he shared with the
Cornerstone Veritas team the whole story of his involvement with Cornerstone
Veritas. He shared some incredible
things… “Noelle was there to encourage
me and inspire me at the start of university to make positive life
choices. Just as I finished school, and
was starting to move away from the right path, Noelle came back into my
life! Being part of the Cornerstone
Veritas team has been priceless and life changing. I wasn’t so good at relating with people
before joining CV, but now I feel I am part of a family and am confident in
building relationships with others. I am
so proud to have been part of a work that is changing and impacting people’s
lives.”
Speechless. It’s so
amazing how connected we are, and how people can come into each other’s lives
at the perfect timing.
Edmond and Clementine: The Ugandan I became closest friends with
during the 2009 trip to Uganda was Clementine (said Clementina), We worked together on several session and
found a kindred spirit in one another.
If you’ve been following my work for some time, you know who she is!
During our time together in 2009, I shared with Clementine
about what I had just learned about Cornerstone Schools. I knew that she had young men who she was
caring for, and encouraged her to have them apply to Cornerstone Leadership
Academy. I didn’t think anything more of
the conversation.
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| Edmond's CV Intern Photo |
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| Clem, sharing with the group in 2009 |
In 2011 I met Edmond Elasu, and interviewed him for our
Cornerstone Veritas internship program. While talking with him, I realized that
he was one of Clementine’s nephews. Later, I asked Clementine about it. She told me that after our conversation in
2009, she had encouraged Edmond to apply for Cornerstone Leadership Academy for
Boys because there was not enough money in the family at the time to send him
to his last 2 years of high school. He
applied and was accepted.
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| Picking coffee with Clem last year... |
Edmond graduated from CLA Boys in 2011 and was a Cornerstone
Veritas intern in the 2012 Internship year.
He then joined junior staff, and will become the Cornerstone Veritas
Administrator when I leave! He is taking
over our work… all because of a casual conversation under a mango tree in
2009.
Clem is still one of my closest friends. Last time I visited the states, I took crafts she made and that I helped her design. She made some good money!
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| Edmond's current staff photo |
Fr. Herald Brock: In 2009, our team from Europe expected to
be the only white people at our conference. But when we began the course we
were surprised to find a tall, grey rob clad, American Franciscan joining us! Personally,
I think Franciscans are great, so naturally I took time to talk with him and
get to know more about him and his work.
He had come to Emmaus with a car load of young people from his youth
group in Torit, South Sudan, where he had been working for a few years. I enjoyed spending time with his youth and
hearing about his work.
We remained in touch when I went back to the States. When I decided to travel back to Eastern
Africa in the summer of 2010 and asked him if he was hosting any teams at that
time. It turned out he was! He invited me to be part of their 3 week
team, which would travel across South Sudan.
Of course, I accepted.
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| Fr. Herald and Noelle in South Sudan |
My time in South Sudan was life changing, and deepened my
heart for the African continent greatly.
At the end of my time in South Sudan, I asked Fr. Herald if he would be
my spiritual direct (another word for Christian Mentor), and he agreed. For the last 3 years we have regularly
emailed and met several times a year, usually in Uganda (at Emmaus). He no longer lives in South Sudan, but he is
still the person from “outside” that I see the most. He has been a consistent support,
encouragement and advisor through the ups and downs of the past 3 years. Because of his experience of living and
working in Africa, he has been an incredible mentor and guide, all because we
both showed up and the same place, at the same time in Uganda, July 2009.
Susana and Peter: Rewind to 2005. A dark, dank, and cold night in London,
England. I had journeyed by myself to a
small meeting of Koinonia in some random part of London. When I arrived, I met some nice people as we
stood outside in the cold for a while because we were locked out. The meeting was nice, and I was invited to an
event the next night with them. I
convinced my sister Hannah, who I was traveling in London with, to attend the Saturday
night event with me. There, I met Susana
from Uganda. She was dynamic, fun and
African! I cornered her and we talked
for a while. She had a great story and
was really fun.
But we lost touch. In
2007, when Facebook became open to people who weren’t at university, I signed
up. Who should find me but Susana! She had just gotten married to some guy named
Peter, and sent me a message just saying Hi.
Because she had worked in London, she knew some of the people I traveled
to Uganda with in 2009. So, we met up
with her and her husband Peter, in Kampala for a day! It was great to reconnect with her.
As we said goodbye, I asked if I could stay with them if I
ever came back to visit. They said an enthusiastic
yes. Then, just as they were walking
away, Peter turned around and informed us that Susana was 2 months
pregnant!
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| S&P 2009 visiting with our team in Kampala |
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| My favorite family, a few weeks ago after enjoying Indian food |
Well, I did come back and I did stay with them, for 10 days
in June of 2010. Their son was then 5
months old, and a little afraid of his new muzungu (white) auntie. Well, he’s now 3, and not at all afraid of me
anymore. He now has a brother, and the
two of them are probably my favorite children in Uganda. Susana and Peter have been a pillar of
friendship, love, support and encouragement to me. They let me stay with them many times, helped
me recover from being sick, bought me my first sim card, taught me to use
taxis, and have been a rock in the midst of a lot of craziness. We’ve been through a lot together over the
last 4 years, I would not have survived Uganda without them.
And there are even
more!
To me, these are incredible stories of how connected the
world is, and how little we comprehend the impact of our actions and choices. I had no idea that I would spend 3 years of
my life in Uganda, or that all these amazing people would play a large role in
my life. I value each of these people so
much, and am grateful beyond words for those “random”… or not so random, 10
days in Uganda in 2009.
